I have spent yet another day from morning until after 9pm going through boxes and pictures and clothes and STUFF! But I wanted to post something and I thought this was really sweet!
My hubby is a very thoughtful man. Now, I know most people who don’t know him well probably wouldn’t think it, but he does the “little” things that I would never THINK to ask for! Like when we were dating and very poor college students, our first Christmas he filled up my stocking with little things I had mentioned wanting or needing, mostly as thinking out loud type murmurings – a pyrex measuring cup, some Pond’s facial cleaner, a filagree silver ring, etc. It was incredible!! Half of the things I had forgotten even saying out loud and I was amazed that he was even listening, much less paying THAT much attention!!
SO that was back in 1986. Fast forward 22 years later.
Last night we were sitting in front of the fire, absent-mindedly checking email while watching the Bourne Supremacy, when he looks up with a funny expression at me. “What?” I ask. “I HAVE to show you what I got you, ” he says.
Money lately, is tight. I don’t want to hurt his feelings or rain on his obvious pleasure, but does he really NEED to by buying me anything online?? BUT…I just say, “You shouldn’t have, but you obviously can’t wait. What is it?”
He turns his laptop to face me, with a huge grin and says, “look”.

Filed under: On a Personal Note | Tagged: kindness, little things, love

you are incredibly fortunate to have found him!
aaawwww, that IS sweet. I always had a feeling about the hubby being that way though.
Others see it too, we really do. Especially lately. I would greatly appreciate someone listening to me like that and then following through! Way too cool.
I am in awe of you both! You are an inspiration for me in this little segment of life we call..marriage.
go go go drewbie-dewbie-doooo!